Sometimes You NEED to Talk Things Out
Getting OVER IT doesn't necessarily mean you have to IGNORE IT. Life and relationships bring us some very real issues. Not all those issues can simply be dismissed. At times people cross boundaries with us and inflict pain. To never address those crossed boundaries leaves us open for them to be crossed again. So, despite how uncomfortable the conversations may make us or others, sometimes we need to have the hard conversations so everyone involved can move forward.
Remember this: Those conversations can not be limited to a discussion about the problem... Somebody has to come with possible solutions and an open mind to bring resolution. ~ Farris Long